my dad is an alcoholic, how can i help?

2021.09.21 05:23 Budget_Conflict9309 my dad is an alcoholic, how can i help?

hi everyone, this is my first time posting, i’m on mobile and english is not my first language, so i apologize for any mistakes. my dad had a difficult childhood, an abusive dad, but he doesn’t talk about it like it is a big deal and denies having any traumas. however, he is a very emotional person and has anger issues. he always drank and would always get happy, but in 2019, my youngest sister started having health issues, he started to get really anxious and started drinking a lot. then the pandemic hit, me, my mom and sisters went to stay at my grandparent’s house because my dad works in the medical field and was afraid to get covid and pass it to us. we stayed there for four months and he drank non-stop. we came back and he didn’t stop. now, he would drink during weekdays until he was black out drunk, and would get sad/angry/aggressive. last month we had a huge fight while he was drunk, which led to him realizing his problem with alcohol and how he is getting more and more depressed. he started seeing a therapist and said he would not drink until the end of the year, if he could go by these few months without any symptoms of abstinence, he would drink again but carefully, but if he showed the signs, he would completely stop. this weekend my cousins were here and he drank a lot on friday and saturday, on sunday he did not drink anything. i love him with my whole heart and i want to be there for him. what can i do to help him go through these months without drinking (i have a big family and they all drink, and we have a lot of family reunions)? and if he can’t drink ever again, what can i do for him? and if you’re struggling with alcoholism, i’m sending you lots and lots of love and i pray for your recovery! :)
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2021.09.21 05:23 CocoMunchup-223 Universal Dark Arts Show Times?

What time does the Dark Arts show happen? Universal app just says “dusk.” Is there more than one show each night? Will be going next Wednesday (Sept 29). Many thanks!
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2021.09.21 05:23 SPAZ707 Bitcoin just dropped to $40,200 on Coinbase!

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2021.09.21 05:23 Irvingmohn I'm a selfish coward and I expect to get attention from people I know won't even care

Well... Throughout my life I've had what I think are depressive episodes and every single one of them had me thinking "what if I just give up and die" but there's two main reasons why I don't do it.
The first one is that my family (or what's left of it) would be sad and probably feel guilty about it... And I don't want to harm more people or make them feel responsible for what I would do... I've been there and don't want anyone to feel as I felt in the moment. There's people that believe in me and try to help... But being realistic, even when they are trying and do the best they can, it doesn't work, I feel like I owe them something for that and don't want to disappoint them... But those thoughts keep coming every night and now even in the middle of the day multiple times.
The second one is that I'm afraid on how would it turn out... What if I fail and end up being in a wheelchair or in a bed for life? What if there's something after life and it doesn't just end with me dying? So much could go wrong... I've found myself googling ways to die painlessly but most of the times it ends up in getting to posts or articles about not giving up. The times I tried to do it in a certain way to die I ended up getting scared and pretending like nothing ever happened.
It started with going on night walks hoping maybe someone would try to rob me or something, maybe I could get lucky and get someone to shot me in the head... Right there, quick and easy
I've pictured this fantasy many times in my head, I'm walking down the street and someone gets close and puts a gun against my head, sometimes I beg to be killed, sometimes I reach for the trigger and do it myself as quick as I can...
But then I remember, the people that love me are going to see me and I'll probably end up in condiciones that aren't pretty, that wouldn't be good for them
I don't even remember it all started, I kinda just became the normal. Have a quiet and calm period until shit goes down. Hell, even there was some times where I felt that I was happy and doing things right, but then reality kicks in and messes up my life...
Maybe it's that I'm only seeking for attention, maybe I just want to feel loved in a way I never felt before
Maybe should go back to therapy and even get in contact with a psychiatrist, but not now, I can't
Sorry if I went sideways with what I was writing, thoughts just kept coming and my mind just lost track of what I was saying... Anyways, thank you for listening.
Have a good night
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Only this script is NSFW, the other two being much tamer, but I think it would be amazing if I the same performer wants to do all three parts of a series.

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